We've all been in that space where we are approaching a big project, trying a new activity, or doing something about which we feel really uncertain. Whatever the situation, it can be even more unnerving when the outcomes feel like they have very high stakes and failure is not an option.
It's hard to tackle the self doubt that creeps into one's mind, even at times when we are certain of our abilities to perform.
In these moments, I like to pause and ask myself, "Can I try to see myself as others see me?"
I know I have the respect of many peers, colleagues, students, and friends. If we were to ask any of these folks, "do you think I can handle this?", the answer would most certainly be a resounding yes. So in those "scary" moments, I'm finding it useful to see myself through these fresh sets of eyes and reflecting on how that changes my own lenses.
Give it a try!
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